Healing Pain, Changing Lives.

Comments, discussions, testimonials, workshops, meditations and other events being held for my clients and colleagues

Saturday, 27 August 2011

absolute healing

I was inspired by the Midsummer Renaissance gathering I attended a month ago in London. I loved that so many people had come together with the intention of moving humanity forward into an age where we are expressing our unity as love individually, in the family, the community, in society and in our economical, agricultural and industrial structures.

I have read Andrew Cohen’s books but this was the first time that I had been part of the Enlighten Next community. My background is as a homeopath and a student of Byron Katie, Brandon Bays and Gangaji. Gangaji and Brandon Bays are both, like Cohen, teachers of the Ramana lineage and were identified by Poonjaji as his successors. As I see it, the difference between the teachings is that Cohen is inspiring a drive forward, beyond the personal to a collective: evolutionary progression. While coming from the ground of being this is an up and out direction. Gangaji and Bays talk in terms of deepening and expanding, they teach us to access enlightenment through the body, through opening to love. It seems to me that the two aspects are complementary: yang and yin, spirit and heart, expanding and deepening; and to take enlightenment forward now we need integrate the two aspects more fully.

To borrow from the model of Maslow, a culture needs to first have its physical needs of food, shelter and safety met before it has the energy to address its emotional needs. The baby boomer generation of the post-war West enjoyed relative stability and safety and was free to begin to contemplate its emotional pain. Acknowledgement and contemplation of this pain lead to a narcissistic, self-absorbed stage in our culture that fitted with the post-modern thinking of the time, but, on the plus side it lead to the development of psychotherapy and psychoanalysis and the Jungian recognition of the collective conscious (1959) which form the basis of the next level of understanding.

Our appreciation of emotional pain has been evolving rapidly over the last 4 decades. Amongst many others, Toller (2001) described the pain body which holds the unconscious memories of events that occurred in the past but were too overwhelming to be fully processed at the time. Louise Hay (1988) and Brandon Bays (1999) describe how certain cues: sounds, smells or sights prompt a replay of bodily responses such as fear, anger or sadness that were appropriate in the memory but not necessarily to the present. The ego fears these responses as they are beyond its understanding and it tries to overcome them with the power of reason. Most of us are still at this evolutionary stage and the struggle to control emotions is a constant preoccupation of the ego and can cause intense and overwhelming angst.

Louise Hay recognised that suppressed pain from the past and the ego’s attempt to control our responses to it can eventually make us physically or mentally ill. Tools for healing our suppressed pain have been developing since then and in the 1990s an evolutionary leap occurred with the publication of The Journey by Brandon Bays, Loving What is by Byron Katie (2002) and Freedom and Resolve: The Living Edge of Surrender  by Gangaji (1999). Each teaches a different approach and each introduces a wide audience to a fundamental shift in understanding. Gangaji invites us to turn towards our pain and explore it more deeply, accepting rather than fearing what we find. We learn that the pain is nothing to fear and by opening to it we release it and as we continue to explore ever deeper we find that in its heart is the opposite. So in the heart of fear we experience infinite safety, in the heart of grief is total acceptance and in the heart of anger is universal love.

Byron Katie teaches us to question the beliefs of our ego until we recognise that none of our thoughts are definite and that when we are free of judgement we can rest in acceptance, in non-personal awareness, in grace.

Brandon Bays brings together several psychotherapeutic tools which allow subconscious painful memories to become conscious. We can then turn towards the pain, find the freedom in the heart of it and then question the judgements that we adopted to protect ourselves from it.

There are now many, many other processes, interpretations and routes to releasing the legacy of pain from the body so we can be increasingly free from the ego’s struggle to control and be ever more conscious and present. This is necessarily a lengthy process as we not only carry our own pain but that of our forebears, and however enlightened or free our egos believe us to be we can rest assured that we all have blind spots and complete freedom is something to which most of us can merely aspire. We all carry unexamined judgements and fears which jolt us back into the ego from time to time. However, emotional freedom is something we can work towards alongside our quest for spiritual freedom: we can deepen as we extend.

So, access to love is through the emotional body, as we open deeper and deeper  into the core of our being we find peace, stillness, acceptance and joy within and then recognise that all these extend beyond our individual selves and that we are boundless: we are one-ness. Unconscious emotional pain acts as a block to this opening and ours is the first generation to have ready access to tools that will allow us to heal. We can heal and open beyond the individual suffering to encompass universal suffering and hold it in acceptance and love. This is a yin state. From this can arise the yang of forward movement and expansion into a post-post modern culture that arises from the absolute, is ego free and has the confidence to define a new society that is congruent, compassionate and based on love www.clarewaltershealth.co.uk.

Friday, 19 August 2011

new workshop programme for the autumn term

Meditation Evenings - Autumn term 2011
at Park Willow, Wortley and Eastthorpe Hall, Mirfield
Please contact Clare to book your place

clare@clarewaltershealth.co.uk 01484 866747


Meditation Evenings

7.00 until 9.00
September 21st, October 12th, November 9th and December 14th at Park Willow, Wortley, Sheffield S35 7DR

and September 28th, October 26th and November 23rd at Eastthorpe Hall, Dewsbury Road, Mirfield WF14 8AE
In each of these meditations I will introduce a theme for you to focus on and there will be a guided meditation session lasting about 45 minutes that will help to calm and centre you. This will be followed by refreshments and discussion about how to keep your stress levels at a comfortable level when you are back out there in your day to day life. .

£10 a session, £25 for a block of three sessions and £50 if you would like to pay in advance for all seven!
www.clarewaltershealth.co.uk

Wednesday, 3 August 2011

feedback from a client.....

 
Thanks sooo much your help over the past few weeks.  Although it felt good to have released those long-held emotions while doing our Journeywork last Friday I wasn't sure if I felt instantly any different.  However, something definately seems to have "shifted" followed our Journeywork.  It feels strange not to feel miserable - like something's missing ha ha! 

Thursday, 30 June 2011

testimonial from Melissa Illingworth, yoga teacher

"I have seen Clare for two sessions of Journey Therapy, and have been genuinely amazed by the results. Her approach to the therapy is deeply compassionate and sensitive. The changes brought about by these sessions have been subtle and profound. I can highly recommend Clare for Journey Therapy to anyone seeking to make real changes in their lives, on whatever level."

Friday, 6 May 2011

Some lovely feedback


I feel very safe and secure in your home.
It feels like a place that I can talk.
I feel very safe with you – you are a lovely lady with a kind face.
The chair I sit on is too low.
I came to you believing you to be my last resort.
I didn’t really believe you could help me but there seemed like there was nothing else left to try.
There were loads of things wrong with me – both mental and physical.
My nightmares were frequent and horrific.
I couldn’t walk 10 yards.
I couldn’t drive a car.
My skin was crap – my personal hygiene left a lot to be desired simply because there was no point in showering or changing clothes.
I was slowly destroying the marriage to a woman I love more than I ever thought possible.
The sarcastic side of me gave names to the remedies you suggested – “eye of newt”, “toe of frog”, “tongue of lizard”.
Why not quietly take the piss because it wouldn’t work?

And now here we are, some six months on from my first visit.
There have been around 6 visits (I think).
I changed clothes daily.
Showering is a pleasure.
I can walk 800 meters.
I’m driving a car again.
I’ve booked a course of treatment at the Dentist.
I’ve not had a nightmare for months.
My sleep has improved.
Household jobs that were previously beyond me are now getting done.
The relationship with my wife gets stronger and stronger.
I feel like I have a future.

I have been taught a technique for dealing with some of my demons.
Haven’t got a clue why it works.
I was tempted to find out why it works but decided not to.
Let it work and don’t worry why.

I’m still very much work-in-progress.
But I feel like its work that’s worth bothering about.
I didn’t feel that way six months ago.
Les.

On 4 May

Tuesday, 3 May 2011

Rosie's life saved by homeopathy


Rosie’s life saved by a ‘placebo’

Two weeks after my spaniel, Rosie, had pups I rose to find the runt of the litter looking very weak and poor. On inspection it was clear that one of Rosie’s teats was very swollen and hard. The other, stronger, pups had abandoned this unproductive teat and the runt, unable to fight for a better option, was starving.

The pup was soon revived with some fortified goats’ milk and Rosie’s teat was restored to health in 30 minutes with a dose of Phytolacca – a homeopathic remedy known to heal straight forward cases of mastitis in humans and cows.

At six weeks we decided to start taking Rosie for walks again as the pups were eating well and partly weaned. Whether this was the cause or not I do not know but the next day she was clearly very unwell and I found that she had a hot, swollen and extremely tender teat: mastitis again but this time far more advanced. I gave her Phytolacca and some other remedies throughout the day but there was little sign of improvement. By the evening she was beginning to become ill with a fever and, knowing that this was dangerous I agonised over whether to call an emergency vet. In the end I decided that, if she got no worse, I would wait overnight and take her in the morning. By 3 am she was hot, her mucous membranes were dry and she was unwilling to move because it intensified the pain in her teat. These were danger signs and it was no longer safe to let the condition take its course.

Bryonia! The remedy she needed came to me in a flash and I immediately gave her a strong dose. An hour later she got up, had a drink and fed her pups. With guarded relief I thought that she might have turned the corner. An hour after that she polished off the tea that she had ignored earlier and I relaxed. The remedy was definitely working.

As is usually the case, this drama played out over a bank holiday when vets are less available or I would have taken her sooner, but there was a clinic the next morning and I decided to take her just in case this improvement did not hold. The vet prescribed antibiotics and anti-inflammatories and said that if I was to give the medication I must wean the pups as it would come through in the milk and might be harmful to them. Weaning at this time was something I wanted to avoid if I could: mastitis is extremely painful and the discomfort is worse when the teat is engorged with milk, So, with the medication to hand just in case, I decided to continue watching and waiting.

Rosie was improving by the hour and, as she no longer had symptoms that told me she needed more Bryonia, I gave her a Silica which is a remedy that heals abscesses. The next morning Rosie was her old self, the teat was cool and no longer painful and the lump inside had halved in size. The day following the lump had completely gone.

There are times when even seasoned homeopaths like myself marvel at the wonder of this medicine. It really does work. It heals rapidly, gently and without dangerous side effects. I have, of course, seen its wonders many times – it has cured my children’s acute ear infections in minutes, healed torn ligaments in days and cleared up the symptoms of flu in hours. At the moment many long standing clients of mine are returning for their annual ‘fix’ of homeopathy to stave off the misery of hay fever for the entire season.

There are two big mysteries of homeopathy – one is how it works so miraculously, defying scientific credibility, and the other is why people do not use it more! Who cares how it works. It does. As my dog will testify!!

Monday, 2 May 2011

My dog responds to a placebo!!


After some deliberation my daughter, Abbie, and I decided to breed from our springer spaniel, Rosie, this spring. We had to balance the costs in terms of worry and hard work with the benefits of the fun it would be and the possibly that it might make us a small profit.

In the end we decided to go for it and in February Rosie was escorted to the far side of Barnsley to meet her match, a handsome pedigree by the name of Alfie. We had two possible delivery dates and Abbie took a gamble and arranged to be back from university in time for the second date. It was a disappointment when I realised that Rosie was in labour two days early and while I had left the room to ring Abbie and tell her that she had missed the boat the first pup arrived ...on the floor!!

I quickly scooped up the pup and put it in the bed and for the next 4 hours stayed with the labouring Mum so she would settle and give her full attention to the job in hand. She proceeded to produce three more healthy pups and, when all had been quiet for some time, I decided that it would be OK to leave her so we could all get some sleep. Four hours later I got up to find a fifth pup! He was absolutely tiny but all seemed well and so her litter was complete.

Two weeks later I got up to find the runt of the litter looking very weak and poor. On inspection it was clear that one of Rosie’s teats was very swollen and hard. The other, stronger, pups had abandoned this unproductive teat and the runt, unable to fight for a better option, was starving.

The pup was soon revived with some fortified goats’ milk and Rosie’s teat was restored to health in 30 minutes with a dose of Phytolacca – a homeopathic remedy known to heal straight forward cases of mastitis in humans and cows.

At six weeks we decided to start taking Rosie for walks again as the pups were eating well and partly weaned. Whether this was the cause or not I do not know but the next day she was clearly very unwell and I found that she had a hot, swollen and extremely tender teat: mastitis again, but this time far more advanced. I gave her Phytolacca and some other remedies throughout the day but there was little sign of improvement. By the evening she was beginning to become ill with a fever and, knowing that this was dangerous I agonised over whether to call an emergency vet. In the end I decided that, if she got no worse, I would wait overnight and take her in the morning. By 3 am she was hot, her mucous membranes were dry and she was unwilling to move because it intensified the pain in her teat. These were danger signs and it was no longer safe to let the condition take its course.

Bryonia! The remedy she needed came to me in a flash and I immediately gave her a strong dose. An hour later she got up, had a drink and fed her pups. With guarded relief I thought that she might have turned the corner. An hour after that she polished off the tea that she had ignored earlier and I relaxed. The remedy was definitely working.

As is usually the case, this drama played out over a bank holiday when vets are less available or I would have taken her sooner, but there was a clinic the next morning and I decided to take her just in case this improvement did not hold. The vet prescribed antibiotics and anti-inflammatories and said that if I was to give the medication I must wean the pups as it would come through in the milk and might be harmful to them. Weaning at this time was something I wanted to avoid if I could: mastitis is extremely painful and the discomfort is worse when the teat is engorged with milk. So, with the medication to hand just in case, I decided to continue watching and waiting.

Rosie was improving by the hour and, as she no longer had symptoms that told me she needed more Bryonia, I gave her a Silica which is a remedy that heals abscesses. The next morning Rosie was her old self, the teat was cool and no longer painful and the lump inside had halved in size. The day following the lump had completely gone.

There are times when even seasoned homeopaths like myself marvel at the wonder of this medicine. It really does work. It heals rapidly, gently and without dangerous side effects. I have, of course, seen its wonders many times – it has cured my children’s acute ear infections in minutes, healed torn ligaments in days and cleared up the symptoms of flu in hours. At the moment many long standing clients of mine are returning for their annual ‘fix’ of homeopathy to stave off the misery of hay fever for the entire season.

There are two big mysteries of homeopathy – one is how it works so miraculously, defying scientific credibility, and the other is why people do not use it more! Who cares how it works. It does. As my dog will testify!!