Healing Pain, Changing Lives.

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Monday, 29 August 2011

Homeopathy for people with fibromyalgia

Perhaps the most important thing to come to terms with if you have Fibromyalgia is that you need to take your health into your own hands. The advice from medical practitioners is to use a combination of treatments, it is a matter of finding out what helps and what does not help and no-one will be able to judge this better than you!
There are a vast range of treatments and life-style changes that may well help, such as drugs, diet and nutrition, tai chi, hypnotherapy, chiropractic, heated pool treatment, individually tailored exercise programmes, cognitive behavioural therapy, relaxation, physiotherapy and acupuncture and I recommend that you explore those that appeal to you. This tends to be an expensive business as many of the therapies are offered privately, so it is a good idea to agree with your practitioner a period of treatment and at the end of this time you can decide either that it is helping and that you want to make it part of your ‘support package’ or that it is making little difference and it is time to give something else a try.

I have been treating people with fibromyalgia at Barnsley hospital since 2004. Our research, along with that of other trials carried out here and in the States, suggests  that it benefits a good proportion of sufferers, so it is something that you may well want to look in to. We have found that many people with the condition have suffered long term stress or emotional trauma in the past. The homeopathic approach is to see how this has affected your health and then help you to heal. Homeopathic remedies are used to reduce the symptoms of pain, poor sleep, fatigue and brain fog and also to treat the root cause of the illness.

The benefits of homeopathy are that it is gentle, non-toxic and non-addictive. It works with our body’s own healing mechanisms and people often report that they feel more positive, relaxed and are sleeping  better before they notice any change in their specific symptoms. Once improvement is underway, and after a consultation with your Doctor, you may find that you can use homeopathic remedies in place of some of your pain killers and sleeping pills, thereby reducing the side effects you may be experiencing with your medication.

You will require a course of treatment and I suggest that you commit to four or six sessions, which will be spread over twelve or more weeks, before judging whether it is helpful for you.

Absolute Specialists have three homeopaths who specialize in fibromyalgia. We have a clinic at S1 Chiropractic, Bells Square, Sheffield.     www.absolute-specialists.co.uk

Clare Walters


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Saturday, 27 August 2011

absolute healing

I was inspired by the Midsummer Renaissance gathering I attended a month ago in London. I loved that so many people had come together with the intention of moving humanity forward into an age where we are expressing our unity as love individually, in the family, the community, in society and in our economical, agricultural and industrial structures.

I have read Andrew Cohen’s books but this was the first time that I had been part of the Enlighten Next community. My background is as a homeopath and a student of Byron Katie, Brandon Bays and Gangaji. Gangaji and Brandon Bays are both, like Cohen, teachers of the Ramana lineage and were identified by Poonjaji as his successors. As I see it, the difference between the teachings is that Cohen is inspiring a drive forward, beyond the personal to a collective: evolutionary progression. While coming from the ground of being this is an up and out direction. Gangaji and Bays talk in terms of deepening and expanding, they teach us to access enlightenment through the body, through opening to love. It seems to me that the two aspects are complementary: yang and yin, spirit and heart, expanding and deepening; and to take enlightenment forward now we need integrate the two aspects more fully.

To borrow from the model of Maslow, a culture needs to first have its physical needs of food, shelter and safety met before it has the energy to address its emotional needs. The baby boomer generation of the post-war West enjoyed relative stability and safety and was free to begin to contemplate its emotional pain. Acknowledgement and contemplation of this pain lead to a narcissistic, self-absorbed stage in our culture that fitted with the post-modern thinking of the time, but, on the plus side it lead to the development of psychotherapy and psychoanalysis and the Jungian recognition of the collective conscious (1959) which form the basis of the next level of understanding.

Our appreciation of emotional pain has been evolving rapidly over the last 4 decades. Amongst many others, Toller (2001) described the pain body which holds the unconscious memories of events that occurred in the past but were too overwhelming to be fully processed at the time. Louise Hay (1988) and Brandon Bays (1999) describe how certain cues: sounds, smells or sights prompt a replay of bodily responses such as fear, anger or sadness that were appropriate in the memory but not necessarily to the present. The ego fears these responses as they are beyond its understanding and it tries to overcome them with the power of reason. Most of us are still at this evolutionary stage and the struggle to control emotions is a constant preoccupation of the ego and can cause intense and overwhelming angst.

Louise Hay recognised that suppressed pain from the past and the ego’s attempt to control our responses to it can eventually make us physically or mentally ill. Tools for healing our suppressed pain have been developing since then and in the 1990s an evolutionary leap occurred with the publication of The Journey by Brandon Bays, Loving What is by Byron Katie (2002) and Freedom and Resolve: The Living Edge of Surrender  by Gangaji (1999). Each teaches a different approach and each introduces a wide audience to a fundamental shift in understanding. Gangaji invites us to turn towards our pain and explore it more deeply, accepting rather than fearing what we find. We learn that the pain is nothing to fear and by opening to it we release it and as we continue to explore ever deeper we find that in its heart is the opposite. So in the heart of fear we experience infinite safety, in the heart of grief is total acceptance and in the heart of anger is universal love.

Byron Katie teaches us to question the beliefs of our ego until we recognise that none of our thoughts are definite and that when we are free of judgement we can rest in acceptance, in non-personal awareness, in grace.

Brandon Bays brings together several psychotherapeutic tools which allow subconscious painful memories to become conscious. We can then turn towards the pain, find the freedom in the heart of it and then question the judgements that we adopted to protect ourselves from it.

There are now many, many other processes, interpretations and routes to releasing the legacy of pain from the body so we can be increasingly free from the ego’s struggle to control and be ever more conscious and present. This is necessarily a lengthy process as we not only carry our own pain but that of our forebears, and however enlightened or free our egos believe us to be we can rest assured that we all have blind spots and complete freedom is something to which most of us can merely aspire. We all carry unexamined judgements and fears which jolt us back into the ego from time to time. However, emotional freedom is something we can work towards alongside our quest for spiritual freedom: we can deepen as we extend.

So, access to love is through the emotional body, as we open deeper and deeper  into the core of our being we find peace, stillness, acceptance and joy within and then recognise that all these extend beyond our individual selves and that we are boundless: we are one-ness. Unconscious emotional pain acts as a block to this opening and ours is the first generation to have ready access to tools that will allow us to heal. We can heal and open beyond the individual suffering to encompass universal suffering and hold it in acceptance and love. This is a yin state. From this can arise the yang of forward movement and expansion into a post-post modern culture that arises from the absolute, is ego free and has the confidence to define a new society that is congruent, compassionate and based on love www.clarewaltershealth.co.uk.

Friday, 19 August 2011

new workshop programme for the autumn term

Meditation Evenings - Autumn term 2011
at Park Willow, Wortley and Eastthorpe Hall, Mirfield
Please contact Clare to book your place

clare@clarewaltershealth.co.uk 01484 866747


Meditation Evenings

7.00 until 9.00
September 21st, October 12th, November 9th and December 14th at Park Willow, Wortley, Sheffield S35 7DR

and September 28th, October 26th and November 23rd at Eastthorpe Hall, Dewsbury Road, Mirfield WF14 8AE
In each of these meditations I will introduce a theme for you to focus on and there will be a guided meditation session lasting about 45 minutes that will help to calm and centre you. This will be followed by refreshments and discussion about how to keep your stress levels at a comfortable level when you are back out there in your day to day life. .

£10 a session, £25 for a block of three sessions and £50 if you would like to pay in advance for all seven!
www.clarewaltershealth.co.uk

Wednesday, 3 August 2011

feedback from a client.....

 
Thanks sooo much your help over the past few weeks.  Although it felt good to have released those long-held emotions while doing our Journeywork last Friday I wasn't sure if I felt instantly any different.  However, something definately seems to have "shifted" followed our Journeywork.  It feels strange not to feel miserable - like something's missing ha ha!